How To Find Your Own Aesthetic

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“How can I find my own aesthetic?” “How did you find your aesthetic?” are some of the most common questions I am asked. At first, I was a little confused what this question really meant , so let’s start with the most simple question - what does the word “aesthetic” mean?

What is an ‘aesthetic’?

The word aesthetic can be used as both a noun and an adjective. It is a philosophy dealing with the notions of beautiful. However in the Instagram world, the word ‘aesthetic’ is often used interchangeably with ‘personal style’, ‘visual style’, ‘theme’, ‘cohesive feel’ etc.

For me, ‘my aesthetic’ means my visual personal style. It is a cohesive collection of me and my loves.

Step one / DEFINE YOURSELF

First discover or re-discover who YOU are. Here’s some questions for thought. Reflect or write down your answers.

  • What do you like?

  • What do you dislike?

  • Describe your personality.

  • What do you love about yourself?

  • What does your ideal day look like?

  • List five unique things about yourself.

  • How do you want people feel around you?

  • List some words / quotes you love.

Step TWO / INSPIRATIONS

My aesthetic and who I am is largely influenced by a collection of inspiring materials and persons. Who are your inspirations? Consider:

  • Fictional characters

  • Personalities

  • Fashion icons

  • Ideal lifestyles

  • Wardrobes

  • Quotes

Step THREE / MOOD BOARD

Curating a mood board is my favourite way to see what I like and want clearly. I like to use pinterest and make a private board for re-evaluating my ‘aesthetic’. Some ideas of what to pin:

  • Go through your ‘things you like’ list and pin accordingly.

  • Imagine your ideal lifestyle - how you want to spend your mornings, trips you want to take, hobbies you want to try etc

  • How does your ideal home / bedroom look?

  • What clothes and outfits are you drawn to?

  • Pin scenes from films and tv shows that inspire

  • Art & quotes that make you feel how you always want to feel

  • Images with colours that speak to your soul

& voila, you are looking at a visual representation of you!


Step Four / CURATE

Now, you are in touch with what you like & why and how you want to live your life! The key to a cohesive and strong aesthetic is being able to curate. To curate means to select, organise and present. We have selected our visual inspiration and now we organise.

Start unpinning things that don’t belong. Maybe you pinned a lot of images of outfits you like but there is that one outfit that doesn’t belong. Maybe your pinterest board is very consistent with colours, but there’s that one pin that doesn’t fit in your colour scheme. This doesn’t mean your aesthetic limits you, but simply you are learning how to present your interests and loves in a way that is organised and cohesive. Try finding the same idea in a different image that does belong.

This process will help you truly understand your aesthetic. Soon you’ll see consistent colours, consistent patterns, consistent content that you like.


Step FIVE / Present

In real life: Now let this curation phase spill into all aspects of your life. Let it inspire you to achieve the bedroom you want, to donate the uninspiring clothes you own. You’ve just outlined what makes you happy and what makes you feel like your best self - so let that take over. Its ok to want to reinvent yourself to the person you want to be - but don’t forget our first step ‘the definition of you’! Be your biggest inspiration.

Digitally: I thought I also better talk about your aesthetic on Instagram, as this is something I asked about a lot.

  • Take a read of my blog post ‘5 Tips for a Cohesive Instagram Feed’. This has some great tips for how to present your aesthetic on Instagram.

  • Be yourself online. Remember your personality, what makes you unique. Also consider how you want people to feel when they look at your images & read your words. I know this sounds ultra cheesy, but when I really discovered the importance of this and started to show more of my inner self online - that’s when I was happiest, my instagram was growing and I felt so much more confidence.


EXTRAS

Copying: Copying is bad - we know this, you know this. But still we have all fallen victim to confusing inspiration with imitation. Take a read of Jasmine Dowling’s article ‘Inspiration vs Imitation’. Listen to your gut feeling with what’s wrong and what’s right. A simple way to avoid this, is to let your inspiration sources be vast from movies to art to instagram bookmarks - don’t look to just one person.

Don’t limit yourself: Here’s a myth I want to bust. Having an aesthetic does not mean you can ONLY like certain things or only act a certain way. You are the director in your own visual life. Take a look at my instagram for example - I post things from books, movies, tv, travel, fashion, journalling, photography, drawings, home style - you name it!! But what brings it all together is the visual choices I make to curate all the aspects of my life in a cohesive way - thus creating an aesthetic!

Don’t worry about what is cool: Can you believe there was a time where I never shared my love for tv shows like gilmore girls or my obsession with harry potter because I thought my fashion blogger network would deem it uncool? Fast forward to now - where I am lucky enough to have a whole community of people online who love all the things I love without judgement. Yeah, forget what is cool and uncool - you decide that.


Hope this post has been helpful!

5 Tips For A Cohesive Instagram Feed

How to establish a cohesive & consistent Instagram theme is a topic I get asked about quite a bit. I'm spilling my secrets with all my tips on how to curate your instagram and maintain the theme. 


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1/ Use a feed planning app

It can be difficult to achieve a consistent theme without planning out your feed first. I use the app UNUM to rearrange my photos in a grid before posting. Another app you can use is Planoly.

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2/ Use the same filter on all your posts

Edit all your posts with the same filter to keep them cohesive. Apps like VSCO and Lightroom have options to copy and paste the same filter onto new photos so you don't need to start from scratch each time.

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3/ use colour as a motif

Featuring the same colour throughout the majority of your photos can also draw all your posts together. The stricter you are with this, the more cohesive your feed will look. Spread out photos that don't fit this colour scheme.

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4/ Match your whites

Take a look at the white tones in your photos and compare them in your planning stage. You can create a consistent theme by making sure all the white tones match each other.

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5/ Use Negative Space

Negative space is the space that surrounds your main subject. Increase this space in your photos or alternate negative space images with close ones in your planning app. This gives your feed a fresh, less cluttered look.

45 Bullet Journal Ideas

Being a fairly new to bullet journalling, I am in constant search for cute layouts ideas. Always getting lost into the pinterest abyss and 15 hours into youtube 'Bullet Journal Plan With Me' videos. Here are a list of 50 page ideas, and some visual inspiration! 

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  1. Monthly goals

  2. Travel bucket list

  3. Weekly routine

  4. Fitness tracker

  5. No spend activity list 

  6. Memories page

  7. Netflix tracker

  8. Birthdays & holidays

  9. Favourite quotes list

  10. Go-to meal recipes

  11. Film reviews

  12. Playlist ideas

  13. Water tracker

  14. Cleaning schedule

  15. Conversations you overheard

  16. Mood tracker

  17. Gratitude page

  18. Pen test page

  19. A week in photos

  20. Episode reactions

  21. Lunar calendar

  22. Writing prompt page

  23. Monthly budget

  24. Idle time to-do list

  25. Grade tracker

  26. Habit tracker

  27. Gift ideas

  28. Expenses tracker

  29. Nail polish collection

  30. Healthy eating tracker

  31. Follower milestone tracker

  32. Skincare Routine

  33. Favourite lyrics

  34. Class timetable

  35. Shopping list

  36. Happy list

  37. Restaurants and cafes list

  38. Study plan

  39. Interesting words page

  40. Pressed flower collection

  41. Monthly mood board

  42. A thought a day

  43. DIY ideas

  44. Guilty pleasure list

  45. Blog post ideas list

5 Last Minute Gram Ideas

I am no stranger to those "I have nothing to post" freak outs. Here's a little cheat sheet of some gram ideas to get your creative mind back to work!


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1 / What Your Glasses See / A snap of through the lenses of your favourite sunglasses. Photo credit: @shethespy, @livpurvis_ @shopsonix


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2 / Flowers / You can't go wrong with blooms. Stroll your neighbourhood and snap some pretty flowers. Photo credit: @shethespy @jasminedowling @rickbhatia


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3 / Um Shoes / Take a quick snap of your shoe situation.
Photo credit: @orionvanessa @shethespy @anthropologie


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4 / Your Desk Situation / Show off where you workspace.
Photo credit: @shethespy @alivialatimer @omundodejess


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5 / Beauty Favourites  / A little look into your vanity shelf
Photo credit: @shethespy @kara_bino @kate.lavie